The Rise of Egocentric Christianity

If any [man] will come after me, let him deny himself, and take up his cross, and follow me.
Matthew 16:24

 

 

Several years ago, I noticed a significant shift in the music being played in churches throughout America. By that, I am not talking about the style of music (which, in itself, has become a divisive point of contention among believers), but in regard to the use of words in the songs.  In the last decade or so, the pronouns most commonly used in our songs have changed from "you" and "He" to "I" and "me."  On the surface, this may seem like a detail too trivial to mention, but I believe that this is just a micro-symptom of a larger issue: the problem of egocentric Christianity.

 

If you don't believe that egocentric Christianity is a problem in your church, just ask your pastoral staff how difficult it is for them to find workers for the preschool and children departments or how many volunteers show up for evangelism projects.  One of the greatest indications of egocentric Christianity is the mindset that the church exists to minister to the members.  As a result, egocentric Christians do no feel any compulsion to serve the church in any way.  Instead, they evaluate their church solely by how it ministers to them and their family.

 

Egocentric Christians suffer from spiritual myopia (i.e., short-sightedness).  The are so focused on their own needs and wants that they are incapable of seeing the needs of those around them or experiencing grief over the lostness of others. Their self absorption stunts their ability to grow spiritually and their faith stagnates.  Instead of putting their time and energy into Christian service, it is channelled into hyper-criticism of the church (which can never fully meet their needs) and fellow Christians (who do not share their belief that they are the center of the universe).

 

One of the greatest consequences of egocentric Christianity is that it perverts who God is.  Since their world revolves around themselves, egocentric Christians begin to believe that God exists to make them happy.  They pervert the image of God into a glorified Santa Clause who showers them with blessings because they are on His "nice" list. When trouble or tribulation strikes them, the egocentric Christian, like a petulant two-year old, becomes angry at God; believing themselves to have been betrayed by Him.  They often leave the church, bitter and disillusioned, thinking that God has "let them down."

 

Sound familiar?  I'm sure that all of us have met someone like that.  What we need to realize is that the mentality of egocentric Christianity is invading our churches and slowly seeping into the minds of American Christians.  We certainly see this problem in the lives of some of the believers around us.  However, if we take a long, hard look at ourselves, could we honestly say that we have not begun to drift toward this condition ourselves without realizing it? 

 

What is your attitude toward your church? Are you serving to full extent of your abilities?  Do you grieve over the lostness of your neighbor and take every opportunity you can to share Christ with them?  Or has the me-ism of our current culture begun to take root in your heart?

 

John F. Kennedy once stirred the nation with this challenge: "Ask not what your country can do for you; ask what you can do for your country."  Maybe it is time that we take that challenge and apply it to our churches.  Instead of focusing on what the church is doing for you, seek out ways that you can serve the Church; not just the local church, but the body of Christ worldwide.

 



The Missionary's Motto

To the weak I became as weak, that I might win the weak. I have
 become all things to all men, that I might by all means save some.

I Corinthians 9:22

 

 

Part Four: Laying Aside My Self, For the Sake of Others

 

 

Many years ago, I had a friend who got a job as a secretary to a Jewish rabbi.  Raised in a Baptist church, she was a little nervous about the job, unsure what would be expected of her.  Her fears proved to be unfounded.  The rabbi was a good boss and she enjoyed her work.  Several months passed and as Christmas approached, she wondered about whether it would be appropriate to buy her boss a present.  When she overheard him telling another worker about how much he liked the Christmas present that one of his Christian friends had given him, she decided that it would be alright for her to do the same.

 

Her good intentions quickly turned to disaster.  When it came to choosing a gift for the rabbi, her lack of understanding of the Jewish faith became her downfall.  I can only imagine her chagrin when her boss kindly rejected the present that she had brought for him; a nice, big Honeybaked Ham. Fortunately for my friend, her boss was a very understanding man and was not offended by her gift, realizing that her intention was to honor him.

 

On the mission field, it is vital that we go beyond good intentions. We must make a concerted effort not to offend the sensibilities of those that we seek to evangelize. Instead, we must understand the culture that we are entering into and work within that culture to reach the lost. Like the apostle, Paul, we must strive to become "all things to all men." However, this process does not come naturally to most of us because it requires sacrifice on our part; not a sacrifice of time and money, but a sacrifice of who we perceive ourselves to be.

 

In order to become all things, we must first lay aside our selves.  That may mean letting go of the things that are so much of who we are: our personal rights, the way we like to dress, how we talk and act; so as not to offend those that we have come to serve.  It is vital on the mission field (as it should be when we are at home) that we remove from our lives any thing that might hinder us from evangelizing the lost.

 

It is not surprising that the word "selfish" comes from the word "self."  If we focus on our selves, we have nothing to give to others.  Selfishness is the antithesis of love because selfishness is to love one's self.  The ability to reach the lost for Christ requires a denial of self.  Jesus showed us this at the cross.

 

Whether you are preparing for your hundredth missionary trip or just considering the possibility of going, remember the missionary's motto: "I have become all things to all men."  Ask yourself if you have reached the point in your spiritual walk where you have laid down your self and allowed yourself to be used by Christ to reach the world.